This may come to shock to anyone reading this (and from what I can tell, there's only one person reading my blog right now, haha), but... I decided to offer another night a week of custody to DH today. With what we're talking about right now, custody will basically be split 50/50, with the kids rotating nights with us on a 2-2-5-5 cycle. Basically, he'll have them Wednesday and Thursday nights and every other weekend (weekend being Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights) and I'll have them Monday and Tuesday nights and every other weekend.
There were a few reasons for my deciding to do this...
1. Growing up, I didn't like only seeing my dad every other weekend.
2. I don't want custody to be a huge battle come our divorce proceedings. Honestly, I want to enter the next stage of our lives as civilly as possible, and custody would be the biggest hurdle.
3. CL-WoW. What's he's going through child-wise breaks my heart (for him). And I'm trying to be a better person, so I decided I needed to give DH more time with the boys.
On the topic of trying to be a better person, I need to come up with a different definition of DH. The former definition doesn't go along with the mentality of being a better person. I've already changed the ringer and message notifications for him on my cell (they weren't really... appropriate). But, I don't really want to go back and change all the DH's to something else. So... I could use new meanings for the letters DH. Suggestions, anyone?
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