Showing posts with label Laughter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Laughter. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

DAY 108, Post 1

Although mentally exhausting, these past two days at work have been my favorite so far.  I've barely had a dull moment, and in some ways I feel like I'm back working in NYC again.  But unlike in NYC, even when the workload is hectic, there are still plenty of smiling faces and friendly attitudes.

I find it funny that the woman at the temp agency who hired me asked me if I thought I could handle working with nine men.  Honestly, I don't think I could handle working with nine women!  These guys are great to work with and keep me laughing.  And unlike CMG, I'm in my first week and I haven't dreaded coming to work once.  Do I want to be at home curled up with Dave?  YEA!  But I don't dread being at work.  And that feels GREAT!

Thursday, April 28, 2011

DAY 88, Post 1

Alrighty then! It's time I fill you in on all the greatness in my life in the last week!

I gave in. Last Tuesday I decided I just couldn't ignore my feelings. I had told myself, him (Dave aka CL-WoW) and others over and over that there was no way we met to just spend two months together... And I was right... And he knew it too...

I decided to make an Easter basket for him, putting egg related messages on 31 Cellas, his favorite candy treat, and putting them in plastic Easter eggs. I drove out there, drove by his house and his car wasn't there. So I drove to the mall. When I was pulling through the mall parking lot, I saw him pulling out of a restaurant across the street and head back to his house. I stopped my car, psyched myself back up and decided to go for it.

But it wasn't that easy. I sat outside his house in my car for a couple minutes and then did a "Beep Beep." But he didn't come out. So after a few more minutes and writing up a bunch more post-its, I walked to the door and knocked. And he answered. And he SMILED!

The post-it on my pointer finger said "Can I have two minutes?". And he said of course. The next finger said "I won't say anything unless it's ok with you.". He said "Of course its ok if you talk!" And talk we did. And have. And everything we've both felt has now been said... And will continue being said...

There's no shortage of smiles, laughter or "I love you's" in my life now.

To make this past week even better, I started my new job, and today actually quit the old one. My new job is amazing. Great people, great environment, and despite wanting to be home with Dave, the work day flies. And I love that. I love having a job I enjoy and am good at.

And as for Dave, he is looking to get a job here and has been a... Ray of sunshine in my life for the last week. It's been amazing to come home and see him here. The smiles, laughter, kisses, hugs and "I love yous" are everthing I could ask for, especially when they are coming from the man I want to spend forever with.

I was also blessed with a visit with my Mom and Aunt Flushy this past weekend. I now have real furniture in my apartment and was lucky enough to be accompanied by these two wonderful women and Dave when I was re-affirmed on this past (Easter)Sunday.

Oh... I am SOOO blessed!

Monday, April 18, 2011

DAY 78, Post 2

WoW...  Today marks three months since THAT day...  I never knew that would be the last kiss.  I never knew that making the drive out there to get my key would be...  It.  I was just SO hurt and SO angry.  I didn't see any reason why I should have been tested.  I still don't I suppose.  I was who I am, and the actions I have taken since then have all been trying to recover some of what was lost.

Because honestly...  I don't want THAT kiss to have been the last.  I don't want that to have been the last time we listen to "Feeling Good" together in his car.  I don't want that day to be the last day I ever hear a real laugh from him.  And I don't want that day to have been...  It...  It was too good before then to just end like that.

It's 2am and I'm awake.  And I don't want to be.  I want to be asleep.  But my dreams are once again taking me back to him and it hurts. 

I should say, Thing 2 woke up with a bloody nose, and after his fall at the park today, it concerns me.  He's sleeping on the living room floor beside me right now, and I feel comforted that I can keep a watchful eye on him.  Penny's also curled up next to him.  It's amazing how she's willing to be so close to him when he's not awake, haha.

Friday, April 15, 2011

DAY 75, Post 3

The boys and I have watched this commercial about 10 times in the last five minutes.  We missed it during the Super Bowl (not surprising, considering our bad Super Bowl experience), but we love it!

Monday, March 28, 2011

DAY 57, Post 2

I have to share this...  I was in tears as I watched this segment on Saturday Night Live this past Saturday Night.  Although politically incorrect, the "Human Suitcase" part at the end had me laughing hysterically...

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

DAY 52, Post 2

I'm laughing at myself.  OK, maybe not at myself...  My knitting...

And I'm proud of myself.  I pulled through and finished the front of the sweater today.  But goodness, it's HUGE!  I told him I was knitting it big because he tends to wear bigger clothes, at least in the winter, but geez...  This thing is HUGE!!!

Penny is small, but not THAT small!

Now I have the movie, "Ghost" in my head... 

ODA MAE:     "Hey, Molly!
SAM:               The sweater she knitted, in the closet, that´s too big.
ODA MAE:     He just told me about the sweater that you knitted that´s too big.
SAM:               Four sizes.

Yea, this one's at least four sizes too big...

Thursday, February 24, 2011

DAY 25, Post 4

Soooo... My "Soul Mate Spec Sheet" in its revised form... (*are new)

1. Calls or texts within a day of first date
2. Doesn't mind and actually likes PDA
3. Sleeps on left side of bed
4. Knows how to and enjoys cooking
5. Sends texts/pictures during the day if/when thinking about me
6. At least 3 inches taller than me
7. At least 20 pounds heavier than me
8. In good shape
9. Smells good (Axe is a plus)
10. Likes kids
11. Likes video games*
12. Likes hockey
13. Likes to camp
14. Does not hunt
15. Great sense of humor
16. Reads books and/or magazines
17. Dark hair
18. Likes board games
19. Plays WoW*
20. Likes animals
21. Likes to stare at the stars
22. Likes to build things/work with hands
23. Looks at the glass as at least 1/2 full
24. Will eat cereal for dinner
25. Will take chances
26. Is spontaneous
27. Is NOT a couch potato
28. Loves to travel
29. Opens doors for me
30. Mixes CDs for me (or makes playlists on my iPOD for me)
31. Interested in architecture
32. Interested in restoring/renovating houses/buildings
33. Within 5 years of my age
34. Has a library card
35. Knows how to do laundry
36. Would dress up for Halloween
37. Has 3-5 (minimum) good local friends
38. Will paint my toenails
39. Voted for Obama
40. Hums or whistles
41. Will buy tampons/feminine products at the store
42. Has never been in jail
43. Is close to his family*
44. Likes ethnic food (Indian/Thai/Greek)
45. Doesn't mind if food touches*
46. Likes garbage plates*
47. Likes Sushi
48. Owns a swimsuit and likes to swim
49. Buys me tulips, even if they are out of season
50. Makes an effort to meet/know my friends
51. Likes my family and they like him*
52. Initiates activities with my boys
53. Stops by my office/work to say hi if in the area
54. Pays attention to positive details
55. Rubs my head/strokes my hair
56. Gives awesome massages
57. Awesome in bed* (hey, this is my list)
58. Loves to cuddle*
59. Takes out the garbage*
60. Hugging him is like dancing, even if we're standing still*
61. Says hello and goodbye with a kiss, hug and a smile*
62. Introduces me to local friends/family voluntarily within first two months*
63. Understands that money doesn't mean crap to me and isn't embarrassed by his place/status in life*
64. Is willing/able to communicate openly with me about past, present and future*
65. Doesn't mind and enjoys if I surprise him at work with a coffee or for break/lunch*
66. Gives as much as he receives*
67. Must have a verbal filter* (Added 03-03-2011)

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

DAY 23, Post 2

OK ladies out there... If you're having a bad day/week/month/year whatever, set your DVR to record The Talk. It's the best decision I ever made. Here I am, up at 12:30am and watching yesterday's episode of The Talk and laughing my ass off. Ahhh, laughing feels soooo good!

The ladies have selected presidents that they considered to be hot and Leah (from King of Queens)... Or was it Sarah?... selected Woodrow Wilson. Sharon Osbourne retorted that she thought he should be in a bathroom with George Michael. But then Sharon selected a president because he had a size 14 shoe... Because size matters. HA!

Thanks to CT and his savvy computer skills I cleaned out my iPOD this weekend and deleted several playlists that really didn't need to be on there anymore. (My iPOD refused to sync with my computer before his savviness.) So now I've made a "Moving On" playlist and could really use recommendations. Anyone?

On my Blackberry I've now downloaded a Daily Horoscope app and so far I'm very pleased! The only thing I wish was different was that I wish I could copy the text (so I could paste the really inspiring ones here) but with the format it's not possible.

Some days are definitely better than others and today (or should I still consider it yesterday) is by far one of the best I've had in quite a while.

Thank you again and again to all of you who are always there for me. I love you all!

XOXO,
Me

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

DAY 16, Part 1

It was a rough day at work. I was talking to a coworker and she said to me, "You can't ride a dead horse." Well, what if the horse isn't dead but just wants to walk for a while? I couldn't help but to think about this for the rest of the day... Seven hours. Obviously I'm still thinking about it now.

I was making chips and one of my managers said, "Kim, your chips are missing something! A smile!". I burst into tears. My coworkers know I'm going through a divorce and am having a hard time with a couple other "issues", but they know me to be an up-beat woman, normally full of smiles. Crying was definitely not something I wanted to do at work... Ever. I must have needed a good, short cry though, as I was able to joke and laugh for the two hours after that. I LOVE my coworkers!

For the rest of day I tried to think purely of a song in my head... I'm Alright by JoDee Messina. "It's a beautiful day, not a cloud in sight and I guess I'm doin' alright!"

So... The "dead" horse. I'm not giving up on it altogether. Maybe it's not meant to be ridden again, haha. But it can be kept well and nurtured and known that somebody cares about it. I think I'm going to give it a month in the pasture to take care of itself and mend, and maybe I'll check in then.

In the meantime I'm going to try to plan an inexpensive birthday day of pampering for myself. My hands look like shit, I could use a haircut, and my body just HURTS. I've been putting all my tip money into a jar (thanks to CL-WoW) and my friend Chris recommended saving it for Christmas. I think I'll use it on my birthday and save for the rest of the year for Christmas.

If you're reading this, I'd love to know! Please post comments if/when you have any.

XOXO,
Me

Friday, February 11, 2011

DAY 12, Part 3

Is it just me or do kids purposely misplace the TV remote so you can't watch what you want to?
I have started DVR'ing and watching The Talk with Sharon Osborne, Sarah Gilbert and others who I can't remember the names of, and I LOVE it. These ladies crack me up. It seems they've been through everything I've gone through or am going through, and they find a way to add a smile to every situation.
I must say though, that there has been a commercial on every episode I've been watching lately that I find disturbing. Easy Feet. "It's like a car wash for your feet!". How does thing not grow bacteria and give the users athlete feet? I mean, YUCK! I wouldn't leave a wash cloth on the floor of my shower and use it everyday, so why would I want to use this bristly brush thing? And, as horrible as it sounds, it I couldn't reach my feet and they needed that much help I would either take a bath, go on a diet or get a pedicure!